Occasionally even CNN has intellectually interesting articles. Paul Frysh's "The Holocaust in Lithuania: One man's crusade to bring justice" (
http://www.cnn.com/2010/WORLD/europe/06/03/lithuania.nazi.prosecutions/index.html) discusses Efraim Zuroff's efforts to bring to trial those non-Jewish Lithuanians associated with the mass killings of Lithuanian Jews (up to 95% of the Jews in the country) and the current Lithuanian government's counter-efforts to (allegedly) stall the trials.
At one point, Jews constituted 7% of the entire population of Lithuania and up to 30% in some cities (
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lithuanian_Jews). Now there are too few for even the modern Lithuanians to notice. As one Lithuanian mentions (in Frysh's article), "we have to learn our own history, before we learn their [the Jews] history." So to this person, his neighbors, by virtue of following some "other" religion, do not qualify as fellow countrymen.
Two weeks ago, I was in a laundromat. There I witnessed an old woman insulting ("you people need to go back to your own country; we don't want any Muslims here") a family, who were presumably from India.
In these cases and more, I wonder what constitutes "our own history," "we/us/our-ness," etc. Common religion? Common lineage? Common current residence? Or what?
When "we" have examined what "we" even means, we should examine what "they" means in the following sentence I recently heard as a justification for the war in Afghanistan: "They came to our country and attacked us, so we need to go to their country and destroy them." I suppose the speaker was referring to 9/11/2001.